Soon the New Year

Posted by Liv Wed Dec 29, 2009 in Miscellaneous |

It is almost a new year it entered 2010. Arguing about what is right and say the voice tjueti (sounds like time for me) or totusenogti ... Personally, I would say totusenogti, the rest will say what they want. There is too little, and argue about.

But as I said it's almost a new year and it has given me some reflections of my own family relationships and good friends' input and output in this life.

I can only refer to this post here, which shows how some families are more vulnerable than others. To my own family, so there has been a part of the past that disturbs me as a mother, but also allows me "steel after" me. The message that came out that my oldest son had lung cancer, struck like a bomb (he does not smoke), my youngest son had a relapse of his illness (anxiety and depression), but he could just as well and win the "fight". He takes it well.
When we were told that the oldest boy would operate off half the left lung, and probably after rehabilitation will be completely well again, did we stood by it. Children will usually survive their parents.

But it gave me a paradox, the new year will only have a single wish for myself: I'll get better with and socialize with my family. Creating a little more quality time in between us. We may NOK from before, but as well it can certainly be even better. We do not know how long we have our closest around us. So why should I be available when my family needs me, no matter what the reason.

I hope I can manage and implement this well, but something must be cut out of my stuff. A little less control efforts such. I take it as it comes, I just need to give priority to the right. (In any case, what is right for me) The only thing we know for certain is "yesterday is over, we can not do anything with it, the day today, we have; make the best out of it, knows no tomorrow"

So with this, I wish everyone a Happy New Year.

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